Talking about the challenges i faced in my life is my insecurity and under-confidence. I have been an introvert in my school and this was causing problems in my life. I decided to overcome the fear of speaking by starting to face it. I started doing meditation and started taking parts in extempore and debate competition. The first time was a big failure but that did not stop me from taking part into another one. I knew, if i stopped now, i wouldn't be able to cope with my fear again in life. The meditation provided me the confidence i needed and helped me in boosting my confidence. When i came to college, i got into dramatics society of the college. This was a big achievement for a guy who was an introvert. i worked hard to bring this transition from introvert to ambivert.
When i think about my future, i always go completely blank. I have made peace with the thought that sometimes it is good that you don't have a long term plan. Life turns out to be great for everybody eventually. So, i stopped making long term plans. I go for short term plan because that is more important for me. I always divide my plan into three phases: First would be prioritizing the task in hand. It depends upon person which task he/she want to give priority first. Second, find the solutions to those tasks in hand. Third, choosing and implementing among the solutions provided. This plan has helped to get out of most stressful situations i have faced in the past. Taking too much pressure and having no means to tackle is always going to increase the pressure on head. So, it is better to have some means to tackle it. Many people have goals in their life and i call those people fortunate because they know what they want to achieve in life. I would suggest them to pen down each and everything they want to do to reach their goal and no matter what happens, never lose hope. Keep on working on your goals till you finally reach your desired targets and run through obstacles, sometimes the plans don’t work out but considering it as a feedback, keep on moving is the main motive.
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