Failure is very important in one's life and is a must. After a failure only success comes, if you do not fail you do not get to rise. How you handle a failure, will define your future, its all in your hands.

Most of the successful people have failed in life at some point in time be it an exam, an interview or job performance or relations.

Failures make you strong if you take them in right perspective. Do not get bogged down by them, just stay calm, positive and aim for a fight back.

After any failure one should not lie down he/she should think reasons for failure, what were the lapses if it was your laziness or low concentration power or poor technical knowledge of the subject or working without any clarity. There can be many reasons for one`s failure which you have to define and find out.If you are able to know the reasons for this failure then you have won half of your future battle.

To over come this failure. First and foremost thing is to remain positive be in a jolly mood consider it as God wish to get some thing better out of you.God always gives opportunities in life and you have to be ready to grab them. It's nature's justice, always everyone in life will get some chance, now he/she has to keep himself/herself vigilant, be on toes to capitalise on this opportunity. Any chance wasted is a dropped catch and you cannot rewind it. So be ready, be focused, be alert and catch it. Be a good Catcher.

Remain motivated - This is a key to getting out of a failure.Keep saying your self you can do it keep talking to your self why can I not do it and no one can stop you.No force on earth can hold you from achieving what you want.

Remain Focused - Aim the target and dont loose the focus.Any wasting of your energies here will only do a harm to your future aims. So never loose the focus. Be it a very tough time but do not give up.

Do hard work - Nothing on this earth succeeds without hard work. This is a very important aspect and hard work has to be target oriented. Hard work has to be defined precisely. Define your aim and then chalk out the methods to achieve it and then accordingly work.

Remain Inpsired - Look for a source of inspiration be it in a form of your friend, colleague or any outsider or celebrity. It will help. You can look for any source of inspiration and then ask your self why you cannot do it.

Do not Shy away from failures - Do not hide your failures. Trying to conceal your failures will not do any good. Be open, talk about it and definitely, you will not be running away from them, you will rather be getting some more answers from people around you or even yourself as to how to overcome this failure. Confront your failures and overcome them.

Failures are your teachers - Failure teaches you some lessons and if you learn it seriously from them you can do very good to your self for future. Trying to find excuses and not making a real learning form them will only do harm to you. So try to learn as much as possible form a failure. A failure has to be analysed and reasons to be explored for it. Figure out all possible reasons for the failure list them and plan your corrective action plan accordingly.

Be relaxed - In a process to turn around your life and overcome these failures always remain relaxed. Some form of activity which keeps you relaxed should be taken up, be it cycling, walking or listening music or watching movies or playing games.

In the end, to sum up never consider a failure as end of road but look to it as the GATE for your new successful future. After the failure only the road to a bright success story starts. Be a Good CATCHER. Make your failure your success story...

jenith

A Perspective On Making Your Failure A Success Story